Since my childhood, I have many dreams like all people had in their life. But have not seen any of my so called big dreams fulfilled, however, some of my smaller dreams have been fulfilled, better late than never. For this I thank God for hearing my words and fulfilling my dreams.
In this phase of my life I have 2 of my very big dreams, which I very much need the help of my God for fulfilling those dreams. The two big dreams are (1)To get married to my dream girl and (2) To build a house of my own money, with my & my spouse's ideas (MY DREAM HOUSE IN MY DREAM CITY - KOLKATA).
These are my dreams which I would like to fulfill in my life, and if these get fulfilled then all the dreams that I have seen and that have not get fulfilled will be nullified. I would like my first dream to be fulfilled in my coming few years and the next big one in the next 10 to 20 years of my coming life.
Let's see and wishing that God will help me in completing and fulfilling my these 2 dreams which I have got now in my mind.
Friday, May 29, 2009
The most tensed days of my life
From my early childhood , I have been a guy who becomes very tensed whenever any problems arises, or you can say a problem which had not arrived yet but just thinking of it in advance.
In my life, the most tensed days of my life were the days when I gave my final exams and the time when we awaits the results to be out. Although during my junior school I was a brilliant student, I was not as worried as I was during my next phase of my schooling (Senior school). I kept deteiorating in my studies and was in a very poor condition by the time I was in my 10th, I had done very badly in my prelims. After giving the Board exams I was more restless and daily see what I have done in my paper and counting that whether I will get passing marks or not. ON the result day I was not aware that the reselt has been declared, when my father had gone to office and returned back and said that the result was out and Asking what I have done in my exams. I got much frightened. Then he said that I have passed , then only I become normal. Next was When I gave my 12th, it was the same things I was doing that I have done before, in my 10th results. This time also I was not aware that the results was out. This time one of my best friend called me and said that I have got 75% marks. I cannot believe what he said because I only know what I have done in my exams. I with my father, then, went to school that whether my friend had seen the result of the boy sitting before me as he was a topper of our school. Then after seeing result that I have got pass (not with 75%) but with good markd than I have thought. These were the most testing times of my life.
In my life, the most tensed days of my life were the days when I gave my final exams and the time when we awaits the results to be out. Although during my junior school I was a brilliant student, I was not as worried as I was during my next phase of my schooling (Senior school). I kept deteiorating in my studies and was in a very poor condition by the time I was in my 10th, I had done very badly in my prelims. After giving the Board exams I was more restless and daily see what I have done in my paper and counting that whether I will get passing marks or not. ON the result day I was not aware that the reselt has been declared, when my father had gone to office and returned back and said that the result was out and Asking what I have done in my exams. I got much frightened. Then he said that I have passed , then only I become normal. Next was When I gave my 12th, it was the same things I was doing that I have done before, in my 10th results. This time also I was not aware that the results was out. This time one of my best friend called me and said that I have got 75% marks. I cannot believe what he said because I only know what I have done in my exams. I with my father, then, went to school that whether my friend had seen the result of the boy sitting before me as he was a topper of our school. Then after seeing result that I have got pass (not with 75%) but with good markd than I have thought. These were the most testing times of my life.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
My most difficult time of my life
There is some time in everyone's life when he would call it the most difficult time of his life.
I too have the most difficult time of my life when I lost my father unexpetedly and untimely. It was in August 2004 when this tragic incident happened with us which had created a large vaccum in our family, especially in my & my sister's life (even felt today by us). That night was the worst night of my life where my father was lying dead and I could not got a moment to sit and cry beside him, because if I cry how could I console my family. So I made myself strong (which I was not from the inside) and consoled my family. We were not at all ready for this, and it was in just in a matter few minutes that our whole world was shattered in a darkness, where many discission were to take and, and for every discission there were many advices (correct and wrong), from which we have to take the right discission, otherwise the future would not be as we expect.
I thank to my (the then) legal advisor who helped us in that time to overcome the then major problem of our family.
But at that time, I was the only male member of my family and so all the responsibilities automatically came upon my shoulders (as before that I was not at all serious about my life and my future and always escape from the responsibilities that were given to me), and so thereon I have to shoulder the responsibilities of my family, and take the right and correct discissions for them. Truely, in the beginning I faced many difficulties in handling the then problems and taking the correct discissions, but as it is a saying that "where there is a way there is a will". I steadied myself and along with my sister studied the problems which came in our family in detail and took the correct discission for it as there was nobody else to help us. But slowly and gradually we paved our way from that difficult time of life but the loss (of my father) is still felt by us very much.
Sorry........ for making you bored, by telling my most worst days of my life........but as I did not tell it to anyone , so I am writing it down.....about as I have gone through that time and faced it..............
I too have the most difficult time of my life when I lost my father unexpetedly and untimely. It was in August 2004 when this tragic incident happened with us which had created a large vaccum in our family, especially in my & my sister's life (even felt today by us). That night was the worst night of my life where my father was lying dead and I could not got a moment to sit and cry beside him, because if I cry how could I console my family. So I made myself strong (which I was not from the inside) and consoled my family. We were not at all ready for this, and it was in just in a matter few minutes that our whole world was shattered in a darkness, where many discission were to take and, and for every discission there were many advices (correct and wrong), from which we have to take the right discission, otherwise the future would not be as we expect.
I thank to my (the then) legal advisor who helped us in that time to overcome the then major problem of our family.
But at that time, I was the only male member of my family and so all the responsibilities automatically came upon my shoulders (as before that I was not at all serious about my life and my future and always escape from the responsibilities that were given to me), and so thereon I have to shoulder the responsibilities of my family, and take the right and correct discissions for them. Truely, in the beginning I faced many difficulties in handling the then problems and taking the correct discissions, but as it is a saying that "where there is a way there is a will". I steadied myself and along with my sister studied the problems which came in our family in detail and took the correct discission for it as there was nobody else to help us. But slowly and gradually we paved our way from that difficult time of life but the loss (of my father) is still felt by us very much.
Sorry........ for making you bored, by telling my most worst days of my life........but as I did not tell it to anyone , so I am writing it down.....about as I have gone through that time and faced it..............
What I mean by getting the right knowledge
In every man's life there is a stage when he is supposed to go to school and earn knowledge. According to the Vedas also, in a man's life first 25 years of life is only for studing. Parents also says that to earn knowledge and to got success in life everyone has to go to school. I also have done that for the last 23 years, but if I go through my life and the phase after my school (Specially the last 4 years), I feel that the knowledge which I gained from the outside world is much more than those I got in the school or college. I also feel that the book knowledge is necessary but it is not at all efficient for anyone. The main knowledge one can get is by experiencing and facing the world by its own and taking his dissicions by its own in the time of any problem. Because I think practical knowledge in life is always important than any other knowledge, and the practical knowledge in life is the most important of all. It is also important for get into any debate which we face everyday in some or the other matter (sometimes correct and sometimes unnecessary). We should give any advice to others if we have the experience of our own. We should also have some main key knowledge in all the fields which is concerned with us or not, as it not have to seem to concern with us today but if we have some key knowledge of the subject it would help us later in the life if we face it. Not only having the knowledge in every matter will help but also we have to update ourself with the surroundings and the matter, otherwise inspite of having the knowledge, we will not be updated with the latest facts with the subject ( As today in every field there is a very fast change everywhere)
Today, I thank God and Ebiz for this practical knowledge which had made me a complete man to face the world, and also helped me in succeed in life and to take the right discisions not only for me but for many others too...... Sometimes, when I sit alone I think that what would be my life be if I had not got the opportunity(via EBIZ) to interact with the 1000's of type of people and their mindset over any issue and life.
I have tried a little to give my feelings on having the practical knowledge in life..........which I think will help everybody if they understand it clearly and correctly.
Today, I thank God and Ebiz for this practical knowledge which had made me a complete man to face the world, and also helped me in succeed in life and to take the right discisions not only for me but for many others too...... Sometimes, when I sit alone I think that what would be my life be if I had not got the opportunity(via EBIZ) to interact with the 1000's of type of people and their mindset over any issue and life.
I have tried a little to give my feelings on having the practical knowledge in life..........which I think will help everybody if they understand it clearly and correctly.
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